Friday, February 14, 2025

Generational Comforts from Accidental Beginnings

I was three, certainly not four when they first came. Tall, straight men with buzz cut styles and square stubble on the middle of their top lips. And they had guns but didn’t bring them into the house. They were loud and lively, and my father smelled of yeasty homebrew after they were gone. They were Americans.

I was four, certainly not five when they came again. They brought a bombardier, and boxes and boxes of stuff the likes of which we had never seen before. Not even at Christmas had these wonders ever entered our realm. Even the black and white television when it was first turned on didn’t compare. The biggest box could hold a fridge if we had known of such a thing at the time. There were clothes, bicycles, footsies, and boardgames. Payday, Monopoly, Life, and a yellow box with a word on it none of us could pronounce.

I was five, certainly not six when I first heard the rattle. The American’s were back. They brought their children. And dolls. We named them after their American children. Tammy and Sherry were cherished for years. As our bellies hit the floor, feet dancing in the air, we dressed and undressed those dolls. In the background, Bonnie and Lloyd were teaching my parents the game in the yellow box. It was Yahtzee.

I was six, certainly not seven when I watched my parents play Yahtzee as we gathered around the trouble game, the older ones played Life, a storm raged outside and there were no Americans. The plastic cup was loud and sometimes one of them would let me shake their turn and spill out the die across the kitchen table. Perhaps one would fall and clatter across the floor and pause the game in the scramble to find it. All the score sheets were gone so they used scribblers or paper bags to keep track.

I was seven, certainly not eight when I played Yahtzee for the first time. Dad wanted somebody to play and Mom was making bread. There was a storm outside. I had learned by watching and keeping score for Dad or Mom on times. I loved the game. I was hooked.

I was nineteen, certainly not twenty when my then boyfriend, now husband, learned to play. There would be a table full of us in stiff competition. The shaking can had been worn out ten times over. The cardboard baking powder tin made less noise. Tally sheets, scribblers, loose leaves were worn out, numbers scratched into the table top through the brown paper bags. The Yahtzee die shaking was a constant and the shout of Yahtzee for five of a kind turned everyone’s head.

I was forty, certainly not forty-one when I played my last game of Yahtzee with my father. He was keen to win and would play from morning to night. By then my children had interest and played with him, too. We knew the game had been passed on when we bought a game for our house in St. Brides and the can made a racket without either of my parents there. Nor the Americans.

I was fifty-five, certainly not fifty-six when I taught my grandson how to play Yahtzee. He’d come from upstairs after school. Sometimes his Poppy would play with us and sometimes his Mommy. The familiar rattle of the die before they were upset on the table and the one that would sometimes take off and end up under the chesterfield held a generational comfort.

I was fifty-eight, certainly not fifty-nine when I played my last game of Yahtzee with my mother. It was at the long-term care facility and she could neither shake the can nor keep the score but she wanted to play anyway. We had endless games as we passed away the days at Pleasantview Towers telling stories about my father and the Americans. I have her game tucked in beside my own at the house.

I was sixty, certainly not sixty-one when I opened a gift this past Christmas from my daughter. It was a new-fangled Yahtzee game that is just waiting to be opened on a stormy day and stories told about my father, my mother, and the Americans.

Yahtzee!

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Generational Comforts from Accidental Beginnings

I was three, certainly not four when they first came. Tall, straight men with buzz cut styles and square stubble on the middle of their top...